Nigerian parents and dating
I don’t know about 30% of them, but I believe 70% of them are shy and very caring.
So long he likes you, sometimes they show you care even before they really fall in love with you.
In droves, they are marrying Caribbean nationals, White-Americans and African-Americans.
They are marrying, not for the primarily purpose of acquiring “greencard,” but for other noble reasons.
They relate to their fathers and mothers differently.
They believe it is “a man’s world” and so they have the tendency to relegate women to subservient roles. True globalization and modernity and westernization are impacting the Nigerian culture.
They know quite alright they don’t have a chance with you, but they believe there is no harm in trying. And Igbo man will never do all these for you if he has not seen your parents, or if he doesn’t know every single detail about you. “Baby on Sunday, we are wearing ‘to match’ to church.” When they see him, they see you. Igbo men believe in “You give me I give.” No time to waste.!
They always want you to be around them; they want you to be happy, so will do anything to make you happy. Because their motive is so genuine, they easily get obsessed and that’s where the problem starts.
He will call you and your total discussion would be about the imaginary person you are cheating on him with.
So in case you get involved with a Nigerian guy or intend approving one for your sister, I present to you my personal guide below: YORUBA MEN (aka Lagos). They will make you laugh, very funny people, it is never boring around a Yoruba Man. HAUSA MEN are shy; they only talk to you when they know the environment is right.
He is not saying he doesn't love you; he will make you think the ladies are the one after him. So long you are not a virgin, you are not the village girl that has been kept for them, they won't attempt to fall in love with you.